Mother's Point of Views

It's strange how two mothers can live in the same house yet see a confrontation between their children so differently. If one child snatches something from the other and the first one screams, why the FUCK would you punish him and THEN baby the snatcher by insisting to her that it wasn't her fault? This is the shit that pushes me over the edge. I've got an innocent little boy being antagonized and teased constantly by an older child and HE is always the one being punished for his reactions. When is the older child ever going to be punished for her initial interventions with the young one? That's fucking bullshit. She wants his toys, she gets them. He wants them back, he's screwed. He wants to ride her bike, he gets it for about 30 seconds before she throws her fit and gets her way. Today we got a new house. Tomorrow we start a new beginning. No more holding back.