This is kind of a vent. Why promise something and then out of the blue just cancel without saying anything about it? The week I moved into my house I was canceled on by almost everyone. And I'm not talking about calling me and saying, hey I won't be able to make it today. I'm talking about making plans and not showing up, not answering your phone, just canceling everything with no mention what-so-ever.
When someone makes plans with me, my day is scheduled around it. I sit around and wait for you to show up or I wait around until the about the time I am suppose to show up at your house and I give you a call with no answer that day or the next day. What is the deal with that? Seriously.
I am so sick of relying on people it is ridiculous. If you say you are going to do something, fucking do it. If something comes up, it is what it is. It's life. I understand that. But some people just... ugh. And the excuses given usually involve car trouble and sick kids. Yeah, if you use much longer you better either show up with a new vehicle of a funeral invite because that excuse is shit.
My husband tells me all the time that I can't rely on people. First I just thought he was being a grouch and that was his bitchy way of venting. Now I see that there is so much truth to it. I can't trust what people say. I can't plan my day around someone's promise. I can't take anyone at their word... what's the point of making plans or promises at all if I can't trust them and you can't stick to them? It's completely pointless.
Well I'm moving on to another blog now seeing as that my son keeps handing me crayons asking me to trace his hand and I have not had the ability to successfully multitask since he was born.
PS-I never realized how many double letters there were in the word "successfully."
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